Budgeting with Baby

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When you find out your expecting the sudden shock of the mounting costs is enough to give you indigestion and sleepless nights, never mind the baby! But there is a way to do it stylishly, cheaply and eco friendly.

Nooooo! I hear you all screaming, how is that even possible? Well it’s easier than you would think, you’re probably already doing it!

Here are my top tips for baby budgeting the eco way.

  • First off re-use anything you already have. This is often more prevalent when you already have kids, all those baby things you can never quite accept they have to go, toys, cribs etc are often lining our lofts just crying out for a dust off. However, even if this is your fist baby you will be surprised how many things you have that you can use for that new bundle of joy. Old chests of drawers and wardrobes are simply crying out for a make over, perfect for the little ones new room. Many people over look the furniture as an expense.
  • Hand me downs. If you have any friends and family that have children, of any age ask if they have any clothes, toys, books etc that their children have out grown. Even if they are a few years old or the wrong gender, wash and store away ready for when your child is enough. Also never turn down offers of toys and books, babies develop so quickly in the first year they will soon be building lego towers, also baby toys are shockingly expensive.
  • Car boot sales, charity shops and preloved baby sales. These places are crammed to the rafters with clothes, book, toys, equipment that every baby needs or doesn’t need. Most are in new condition as they are often never used or they are duplicate gifts. Take your time to visit them all frequently to find the bits you want or need for your baby. You may often strike it rich and find a full bedroom set by a big brand for just a few pounds. Wash thoroughly and you are good to go.
  • Ebay. Some may snort but it is an endless cavern of everything you could possibly need from breast pumps to baby carriers, often many items are brand new and are a fraction of retail price. Also, think green and sell them on once you have finished with them or pass them on to someone else you know that is expecting.
  • Get crafty. If you can’t find what you want or its way out of your price range then make it yourself! Everything from fitted cot sheets, funky and unique clothing to art work can all be made with little experience or knowledge and at very little cost and with an eco story, for example re-use your old clothes into everything from bibs, to hats to socks. Pinterest is crammed with baby projects.
  • And finally make a list. Family and friends always offer to buy something to help you out with your new arrival. It may feel cheeky to ask for large or expensive items so avoid this but sending a list to everyone that has offered to help you out, and make it clear you prefer second hand items and of course handmade or knitted goods. You can’t beat a tiny cardigan hand knitted by your nana for your child, and when its outgrown you can pop it into a box frame and it suddenly becomes a beautiful piece of nostalgia to brighten up your home. Alternatively box it away ready for the next one!

Over the years with our three girls we have rarely bought anything brand new, not just  in the hope we are helping the planet but because there is no need to buy brand new, especially when its something that will only be used for a short period in their life.

Our eldest’s daughters moses basket was bought with stand and bedding for just £3 from a car boot. Best £3 we had ever spent. When our second was born we needed a new steriliser, I bagged one that hadnt been used from freecycle, as the name suggests for free! And when our third was on her way a few friends donated a cot, toys and clothes that where cluttering their home, we then passed it on to another friend after she had outgrown it all. It’s possible to have that stylish nursery you crave without breaking the bank or the planet.

Happy eco thrifting!

Welcome back

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Well, it’s 2023. It hasn’t been the most glamorous 2 years away from this blog, and the thought of it sitting here on the internet gathering dust, at some points pained me more than it should. At multiple points I’ve tried to find the urge? To get back to it and start producing some content for the last few stragglers that are still subscribed but ultimately I don’t think I knew who I was anymore.

Turning 40 at the back end of 2022 gave me pause for thought, especially while I sat in the beautiful 23 degree heat that Tenerife gave us. I feel like there is so much I have yet to accomplish, as a wife. Mother, and a human being in my own right but I cant find the perfect place to channel all that energy.

I always envisioned that a job I loved would give me the reason to really push myself but in actual fact it just gave me more reasons to step away, and slow down. Wanting to find more time to enjoy the time I have with my family and doing stuff that I actually enjoy doing, it wasn’t at all how I imagined, 18 months in and I just feel lost and unmotivated whether thats a me or a them problem I’m not entirely sure, but what I do know is that things need to change.

So this is me saying Hi and Welcome, not just to the new year or my blog but to the next season of my life, and I’d really like it if you came along for the journey, I think we can learn to figure some shit out together… wouldn’t that be something!

The many days of advent

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So tell me, what does advent look like for you?

Is it just a chocolate calendar or something a little more extravagant? Or even handmade?

For us as the girls have grown this have evolved and shifted and an advent calendar is one of the biggest parts of Christmas for them, it’s a firm family tradition.

We have tried the chocolate ones, we have had Lego ones but the one that started this whole thing off for them more than any other was from about 5 years ago, I wasn’t working but Daddy was and money was tight and as they were still young I decided I would hand-make an advent item per day, I started in Nov only using items I already had, as I was making clothes and home furnishings at the time I had loads of fabric I could create things from, I started with little felt animals, I painted some wooden peg dolls and even made them each a pillow from some off cuts of fleece and made moustached faces on them.

Now every year, even from our eldest who is almost 17, they ask if they are having an advent calendar, for them it’s so much more exciting than Christmas itself, now they are older the items inside have shifted and with a full time job to juggle and they all don’t go to bed at 7.30 hand crafting everything hasn’t really been an option but I’ve stuck to a £2 cap per item and tailored the items to suit each of them.

If you are thinking about try this yourself it doesn’t have to be expensive, or fancy. It can include their fave chocolate bars, or hair bobbles, or make up or whatever the hell you think they will love, it’s more about creating a little Christmas magic and filling each day with a little extra I love you.

It still fills me with pure joy each morning watching their faces as they uncover a little something they will cherish, even if it’s only for the coming year. It’s building cherished memories for us all and I already have plans for next years and we are only 2 days into this one!

So tell me, what does your advent look like?

Crafting at Christmas

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We all love saving some money and this year it is even more prevalent in all households.

Everyone loves Christmas but it always comes with a little pressure to “prove” you are splashing out but right now none of us really has the spare cash to live up to this but there is nothing at all stopping you vomiting Christmas cheer left right and centre, if you just make it yourself.

Places like Poundland and Home Bargains have tonnes of crafting supplies for just a pound or less and a little time and creativity and you can even beat the Joneses with your Christmas makes.

I wanted a wreath, not even sure where it came from but all of a sudden I was like “right, I NEED one” but I really didn’t want to spend the £10-£15 for a ready made one soooo I grabbed a pre wrapped wreath from Poundland in a light gold, it’s only tinsel BUT it has made a great base for what I had in mind, I already had a bunch of decorations I knew I wouldn’t be using on the tree this year so I grabbed a box of decoration ties (these are metal and they KILL your fingers after a while and looking back I would bother using them) and a box of mini baubles again from Poundland, so total was £3.

I roped the kids in and we laid out a simple design using what we already had and I got to work building up the decorations.

And voila… a cute door wreath for just £3 and we will always have the memories of making it together.

What’s been your favourite Christmas make this year??

JulieMay Lingerie Review

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Everyone loves lingerie, right? Its pretty and makes you feel super sexy but that doest always equate to comfort. We all have those sexy undies hidden away in our knicker drawer that we dread wearing for ‘special occasions’ as they may dig or ride up or are just generally scarily uncomfortable after the first 10 minutes equally we all have our fave undies, they may not still be the same colour they where when you first bought them but by god they are your fave because they are super comfy!

JulieMay is the bridge we have all been waiting for where sexy, comfort and luxury combine in a glorious concofany of beautifulness, also the packaging is out of this world!

I was sent the whole Serenity collection which you can find here, there are 3 pieces available;

The Bodysuit Shaper

Its a beautiful powder blue with butter soft lace, it has a cross body back with plastic studs on the gusset and the bust and afore mentioned gusset is lined with beautifully soft silk. I have never personally worn such a comfy body shaper in my life! The bust is wire free which is a massive plus for me and with the gentle cross across the chest it provides a beautiful line across the chest, perfect under that little dress you love! It comes in at £89 which for this level of beautifulness is quite the steal and to top that off they have £5 off your first order with the code ‘JulieMay’.

The Bralette

This was definitely my favourite piece out of the three, with the delicate edging and silk lining on the bust it was just delightful to wear, I’m a size 10 with a 34/36C bust and this was a PERFECT fit which is always hard to say with a bralette, it has a lovely wide fastener to the back and was really beautiful to wear, I have to admit I was disappointed to take it off! And at just £45 what are you waiting for?!!

The Briefs

To finish off this ensemble comes the briefs, they are cotton with the cute straps, the edging is gorgeous and didn’t dig in or rub like I expected, they also have the silk gusset which for me is a real revelation, why haven’t more companies thought of this?! It made for the perfect marriage with the bralette, first time I’ve ever wore a matching set that didn’t itch or dig. These come in at just £22 but are screaming to be bought with the matching bralette.

One of the other real plus points for me is there are no tags, yes ladies you heard me, no irritating plastic lables hanging out of the back of your pants or irritatingly digging in your leg all day as all the care information and branding is printing directly into the product, attention all lingerie companies, DO THIS!!

I have been compensated for my opinions on this gorgeous lingerie however all my views and opinions are honest and I do highly recommend that you at least stop by and view their gorgeous ranges available.

Check the wide ranges of styles and funcationality out now at JulieMay and bag yourself a £5 discount off your first order!

Which style is your favourite? I think Morpho is at the top of my list right now!

Haunted Mansion 50th Anniversary Merchandise The Edit!

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Everyone loves a good anniversary collection at Disney have really pulled out all the stops for The Haunted Mansion’s Birthday.

There is a wide selection of goodies on offer depending on your budget and taste, everything from Pandora charms to socks. Check out my top picks below!

Plush doll sets from Disney
Amazing socks from Disney
Must have bracelets from Alex and Ani

Which is your fave item from the new collection? I think I love the Alex and Ani bracelets best but I do love me some funky socks!!

5 best rides at Disneyland Paris

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Untitled DesignVisiting any “theme park”, rides are one the most important aspects of that visit and Disneyland Paris does not disappoint with the varying attractions on offer.

Whether you enjoy thrill rides or family experiences there is something for everyone for all seasons, no one ever said Disney didn’t know how to create the best of everything, did they?

Here is my top 5 attractions at Disneyland Paris,

1: Ratatouille

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Who is this for? Everyone

Re-ridability: 10/10

How Disney is it? 10/10

If you are looking for a family experience then this is the perfect stop come rain or shine, but do expect to wait at all times of the day.

2: Tower of Terror

Who is it for? Thrill seekers

Re-ridability – 8/10

How Disney is it? 7/10

If you are more a thrill seeker or visiting without children then make this in your top 10 rides of your trip, with 4 rides under our belt we will always return however it isn’t for everyone. Wait times are lowest during Magic Hours.

3: Pirates of the Caribbean

Who is it for? Everyone

Re-ridability – 9/10

How Disney is it? 10/10

This is always on our list every day to ride and we have previously ridden 3 times straight just to get the PERFECT ride photo souvenir! Wait times are around an hour at all times of the day however if it has to be closed at any time keep an eye on the app for when it re opens as you can walk straight on until everyone catches on its re-opened. SNEAKY!

4: Star Tours

Who’s it for? Everyone

Re-ridability – 10/10

How Disney is it? 10/10 even if you’re not a Star Wars fan.

This is always a must ride for us, the scenarios can be different each time you ride and it rarely gets old. Extra magic for the Star Wars fans and the gift shop is outstanding! Wait times are generally good at the moment not being much longer than about 30 mins.

5: Crushes Coaster

Who’s it for? Thrill seekers

Re-ridablity- 7/10

How Disney is it? 9/10

This is defo one for the hardcore theme park lovers and don’t let it lull you into a “This is a kiddy ride” feeling, as it absolutely is NOT! Loads of fun and our youngest (9) LOVES it however the rest of us, not so much! (But we are wusses) Wait times are always shocking and are generally one of the longest throughout both parks so be prepared to wait!

Do you agree with our run down of the top 5 attractions at Disneyland Paris? Is there anything you wish I had included or are you screaming “Why in gods name have you included that?” Leave your own thoughts below!!

My top 5 places to eat at Disneyland Paris

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We are quickly approaching our fourth visit to Disneyland Paris and food is one the things we talk about the most on the run up to a trip.

Even after 3, 5 days trips there are surprisingly still places we are yet to eat at and yet again we have a list of places to visit this time coming.

My top 5 places to eat are;

Ratatouille Chez Remi, booking for one evening!!

1: Chez Remy

We have been twice here as our youngest is a massive Ratatouille fan, the theming is amazing, the staff are out of this world and the food is devine!

It does however still surprise me that so many people have found so much to complain about while visiting this restaurant, from poor service to inedible food.

Both times we visited where during March 2019 and we ate at lunch time as soon as they opened, we had a full board premium meal plan so made the most of this as we wouldn’t of been able to eat here without it not just due to the price but down to the fixed menu, the standard plan doesn’t have one thing any of my girls would of entertained and I wasn’t overly enthusiastic myself, the husband however will happily eat absolutely anywhere!!

10/10

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2: Silver Spur

This is an absolute diamond in the rough, it hardly looks like a premium restaurant as it’s nestled away in Frontier Land practically next door to Phantom Manor but don’t let that put you off.

It’s generally fully booked most lunch times but it’s worth booking and wasting an hour on the Thunder Messa river boat or taking in the cowboy feel of the land just to get your chops around some chicken wings.

Again we have eaten here twice on two separate trips with two different meals plans and both where amazing!

The staff are really friendly, the ambiance is amazing and the food was top notch.

9/10

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3: Annette’s Diner

Hidden away in Disney Village this is the perfect spot for all you burger lovers.

We have also eaten three times here, it’s a lovely place to stop and grab a burger and a shake. All meal plans are a fixed 3 course menu with a drink included.

If you are lucky enough to be eating on a premium meal plan do bare in mind that you are getting a much lower value than your voucher is worth but if burgers are your thing then you won’t be disappointed, and the chicken wings are out of this world!!

No need to book here either which is a real bonus for an impromptu “Mummy I’m really hungry” food stop. However, when it’s busy you may have to smush onto a slightly smaller table than would be comfortable for larger families.

8/10

Character dinning at Inventions | Disneyland Paris Restaurants @ The Disneyland Hotel

4: Inventions 

On our last trip we where lucky enough to stay at the Disneyland Hotel so stopping off at Inventions was inevitable, we ate here twice. We did have to book but the first visit was on our first night and after arriving at lunch time and smashing the park for a good 7 hours it was the perfect place to stop to eat after a long day.

It is a buffet menu which is one of the nicest in the park. As we visited during the Summer of Heros there was a lot of themed desserts which really won the kids over even after 50 chicken nuggets and running on flat.

The character interaction was superb and was one of my highlights of that trip, it wasn’t just about the kids either we where really made to feel like part of the magic! We even managed to catch the end of the fireworks before we dragged ourselves back to our room ready for another full day.

However, if we hadn’t of been on the premium meal plan I would never choose to eat here, and yes that is purely down to cost. It was great and we had a lovely time but I would never have paid over £200 for us to eat here as for a lot less we had had better experiences in other restaurants.

7/10

Buffalo Bill's Wild West Show at Disneyland Paris

5: The Wild West Show

One of my most memorable experiences from every visit at Disneyland Paris combined is The Wild West Show, this is something I would urge ANYONE visiting to make time for.

The show is amazing and not once did anyone of us want to leave, we could of stayed all night!

We attended the 6.30 show, upon arrived you are sorted into colours and everyone is provided with a cowboy hat, these are complimentary so they make an amazing memento to take home, even if they are a bit tricky to pack!

Its a fixed 3 course menu with unlimited drinks soft drinks, water or beer, and is part of the premium meal plan, you can still use the meal plan is it isn’t premium you just need to top up the difference and for me this is more than worth it and I have to say after seeing it I was disappointed that I hadn’t made the effort to see it sooner and we are already planning on going again on our next trip.

You are required to book but with two shows per day you shouldn’t struggle to get in to a show for the time you are visiting.

10/10

Easter Gifts

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Easter Gifts

 

On the look out for alternatives to chocolate this Easter? Look no further than my no chocolate round up with items to suit all budgets, and it isn’t for kids!


Easter serving platter
£6.97 – kohls.com

Williams Sonoma mini spatula
£11 – williams-sonoma.com

Easter wreath
£17 – kohls.com

Sur La Table home decor
£4.85 – surlatable.com

Top
£10 – amazon.com

Yellow gold pendant
£1,045 – 1stdibs.com

Weekend Box: Do we have time?

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According to a third of UK parents they have just one hour available each day to spend with their child.

A survey commissioned by children’s activity provider Weekend Box Club, revealed that 90% of parents long to spend more time with their children. Modern living and pressures dictate that finding quality time to spend together is proving difficult.

They asked their subscribers to complete the questionnaire to get a picture of how parents juggle the balance of quality time with their family and modern day living.

The survey of more than 1,200 parents revealed that:

  • 98% of parents enjoy quality time with their children
  • 98% of parents see the benefits of spending time together
  • 98% of parents say enjoying activities together brings them closer
  • 95% of children love trying new things with their parents
  • 65% of parents struggle to come up with ideas of things to do

    Fun is the top thing UK parents look for in activities and every day, parents are faced with the task of finding fun, stimulating and educational activities for their little ones after school and at the weekend.

    Newcastle-based Weekend Box Club creates and sends out activity packs to subscribers each month, filled with two or four activities to enjoy together.

    Make, bake, create and explore are all covered by the boxes, which aim to ensure time spent by parents with children aged 3-8 is quality. The boxes can be used at home, away, in the car or with friends.

 

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We are currently bloggers for Weekend Box after using them on and off for quite a while, I like to think of myself of being very crafty and home educating means that over time you start to see the educational value in all things but my girls love them and really enjoy waiting for the next one to drop through the letter box.

The boxes come complete with activities and easy ‘how to’ sheets, for the parents and children to follow together. So easy to follow in fact the girls will often just make something from the box without even telling me!

They are also created with education in mind, with each activity supporting early years learning and development. This pleases me as i can tie it in to other work we are doing.

You can subscribe for regular boxes (which fit through the letter box) or buy gift boxes to be posted to a little one, addressed to them.

Child psychologist Dr Elizabeth Kilbey, seen recently on Channel 4’s ‘Secret Lives of Four Year Olds’, said: “Weekend Boxes are so much more than an activity pack. They are a genuinely great way to spend time with your children and support their development.”

The activity boxes aim to provide easy resources for the 65% of parents who struggle to find original things to do.

And for the 71% of parents who would pay to have resources sent to their door, the Weekend Box Club solves the problem of what to do with their children when they have time available.

Most parents said they had 10-20 hours available for spending quality time with their children each week, but most of these wished they had more time.

More than half said they often ran out of time to actually enjoy an activity after having to plan it.
And 89% said if they had access to resources, they would spend more quality time with their children.

Andy Stephenson who founded the company in 2013, said: “The survey has shown that parents really do want to spend time with their children but just need a helping hand in finding things to do.

“They want something to hand, something ready and something fun, low cost and stimulating which promotes their child’s development – all of which Weekend Box Club answers for them.

“Children need time and attention and the benefits to both parents and their children when they can spend time together is priceless.”

 

So what do you think? Will you be trying a weekend box? At just £4.95 for a the mini box and £7.50 for the bumper box and now you can try your 1st Weekend Box for free – use the promo code LIZ145 when signing up at https://www.weekendboxclub.com what are you waiting for?